About Me

Begining of this yr,i don't really like guides and i still think that joining guides is boring and wasting lots of my time...BUT now, i realised that being in guides is fun and i am starting to love guides more...Haha...Now my hope is that i can be promoted in guides soon...Haha..

Monday, December 4, 2006

don't think of the past anymore...


Feeling down? Got the blues? You're not alone. Everyone gets sad. Yes, everyone you've ever met. Some people have sad feelings just once in a while, and others may have sad feelings pretty often. More than half of teenagers go through a sad period at least once a month and plenty of younger kids do, too.
When you're in a sad mood, it may feel like it will last forever, but usually feelings of sadness don't last very long - a few hours or maybe a day or 2.
Sadness is the emotion people feel when they've lost something important, or when they have been disappointed about something, or when something sad has happened to them or to someone else. When they're lonely, people often feel sad.
When you're sad, the world may seem dark and unfriendly. You might feel like you have nothing to look forward to. The hurt deep inside may crush your usually good mood.
Sadness makes you feel like crying, and sometimes the tears are hard to stop. Crying often makes you feel better.
Sometimes when your mood is sad, you just feel like being alone for a little while. Or you might want someone to comfort you or just keep you company while you go through the sad feeling. Talking about what has made you sad usually helps the sad feeling melt away.
When sadness starts to go away, it can feel like a heavy blanket is being lifted from your shoulders.
Feeling sad every once in a while is natural. Maybe you didn't get something you really wanted. Maybe you miss somebody. Maybe somebody you really like doesn't want to be friends, and you don't feel so great about yourself. Maybe an illness or condition gets in the way of doing some things you want to do or makes you different from your friends. There are lots of reasons that people feel sadness.
Most of the time, sadness is because of a loss or separation, a difficult change or disappointment about something, or relationship problems.
LET THE PAST PASS YOU AND DON'T THINK OF THE PAST ANYMORE...WHATEVER HAPPENS, BE HAPPY...

BREAKING FREE....

Haix.. Too bored so decided to do about this thing too...Haha..There is no other tittle which i think i should write about now in my situation besides 1 tittle only..."BROKEN RELATIONSHIP"
I feel that usually people break in a relationship because of a few reasons and these are the few which i am think of...(fooling around with girls, not caring, does not really really bother about the relationship at all, and more which i can't think of yet)But of course, when they boys do this, i am only sure of 1 thing... I am sure that any girls will feel hurt by the actions of any boys... And usually the boys won't be able to hide the truth for long...Maybe the truth may come out when u were going to take a bus at the busy stop or at the bus terminal then u saw ur bf with another girl and acting very close, in school the girl if she is a councillor, she might keep on changing her timetable to match the boy's timetable for their duties or others which i did not experience it yet... And there will not be any more chance for me... But we girls will need to break with the boys for sure...Most of the time, these relationships are fun and healthy, and they make us feel good about ourselves. Sometimes, though, these relationships can be unhealthy. Unhealthy relationships can cause someone to get hurt physically or emotionally. Also, unhealthy relationships might cause yourself feeling depressed, sad, anxious or nervous, and you may even lose or gain weight. You may also blame yourself, feel guilty, and have trouble trusting other people in your life. The most important reason to leave is because you deserve to be in a relationship that is healthy and fun. So, can leave if this kind of things occur on you...

"Love is the only thing which is real. All else is illusion. You have the freedom and the power to choose love. "

SPECIALLY 4 ya friends(those who were with me everytime like tricia,angela,elynn)...

Hi there friends...
This post is just to let ur know that all the hard work ur had done until we could be friends were not wasted and i really really do appreciate them very much...
I always feel that being friends with ur had been a special part of my life and i'll always be grateful for that- and for you...There were many times when i did not know what to do but ur were there so that's why i know when to turn...Thanks for being there always for me...I think i really got to thank my lucky stars that i got ur all us my friends for almost a year...
HOWEVER...
sadly, most of us will be all separated next year(2007) and will be going to all sorts of different classes...
BUT...
Although we might be all separated next year, we can still be friends can't we?? Of course we can unless....

there is goes again...

Haix... The same old thing is bothering us again...LOVE and FRIENDSHIPS....
Love & friendship, both are great words and both have the power to cause great pains, pains which may even be sweeter than happiness or sometimes & at the same time they hold the power to lift one to the highest state of happiness.
The only difference between LOVE & FRIENDSHIP is failure in path of friendship gives the chance of self-improvement and failure in path of love tends toward degeneration of own self in most time, though may also teach a new lesson of life. The great thing is success in any of the paths leads to utmost pleasure, happiness, delight and all the similar nouns. But, remember whatever be the case whatever worldly is in front is temporary and the true path of life lives in something else.
It’s not necessary that the person whom you love, love’s you or is with you but if you love that person, even the imaginations will be more than enough and such love is much, much more stronger and true”.

Anyway, this is just my own thinkings.. I may not be right on it...